My condolences.
My advice when dealing with the internet, as someone who's been on it since dial-up, is never think you know the true heart of a stranger, anything else leads to delusion, because people see what they want to see and show what they want to show.
lol, getting in a dramatic huff over a fictional character is far less "batshit" than theorizing about the sanity of strangers based on manga comments.
I don't think it's the freckles, it's the glasses and hair that are causing her to be "ugly". The Common Male Manga NPC is incapable of seeing past those opaque barriers, she's in full Clark Kent mode to them.