Ah... proper parenting lmao (I don't have kids nor a partner, but he makes a bit of sense about one of the siblings having a little authority over the other)
Actually Xu Qing is right, He can subdue Wild Warrioress with Wisdom and Trickery and she become his Wife, Then Also This Warriorress Can Subdue Him with Sheer Rawpower, so They match made in heavens