
Hmm I had troubles connecting her situation with the ethics lesson, so I got stuck for a while. Thanks for the perspective!This chapter is one of the more straightforward yet going to be one of the more misunderstood messages in this manga. It's the ongoing message that all these students are going through.
In a single page, the mangaka concisely summarizes what this manga has been about (though the next page is a very important followup)
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Because yeah. These kids have a range of experiences and situations and emotions they are in. Some are going to appear more trivial than others to us. Some of their responses are going to be unreasonable to us. But their emotions and reactions are very real to them (okay they're not real real, but you get my point) and should not be so easily dismissed. There are going to be people who would say that she's overreacting, but it is a very normal reaction to being put in a sexual situation you are not prepared for. The key difference is how much she feels is sexual vs how much the "majority" culture does. Which ties into the ethics lesson in the beginning of the chapter.
Actually speaking of, it is kind of nice that her friends still do genuinely care about her and love her for who she is, even if they do think she's being kind of dumb.
Quoting a philosopher and then walking away seems a bit lacking of a reaction considering a student just told a teacher their "accident" was because they felt like dying.
Honestly, it is well-known to us by now that Takayanagi can be quite tactless and lack reactions, but he has his own way to show that he cares. In fact, when his cold/cool persona slips off, like how you see in this chapter, his fluster when Miina fell down the stairs, you can feel the emotional side of him.Quoting a philosopher and then walking away seems a bit lacking of a reaction considering a student just told a teacher their "accident" was because they felt like dying.
We as readers know exactly what Miina has been experiencing and her motivations etc. But Takayanagi does not have that extra information. He only got what he's seen and what Miina has told him.Honestly, it is well-known to us by now that Takayanagi can be quite tactless and lack reactions, but he has his own way to show that he cares. In fact, when his cold/cool persona slips off, like how you see in this chapter, his fluster when Miina fell down the stairs, you can feel the emotional side of him.
What he was saying was respectful to what Miina was experiencing. Miina was being confused, and Takayanagi assured her that it was normal to feel confused; the importance is to discover the enigma inside oneself.
I don't feel the least bit sorry for them, it's not hard to just ask if someone wants to be kissed, much less grope the bobs. Shojo and movies make it seem like everyone wants to be smooched without permission but that's actually a huge turn off for many.I feel bad for the boyfriend, that boob grab looked accidental. Not that it's bad to have boundaries or preferences, but communicating them is not optional, in love or anywhere else, really. But I guess we have to learn that too, often from experience.