Depends on the spider and what you consider 'bondage'? I mean the widow spiders definitely eat their husbands a lot, thus the name. And some good number of other species too. Tying up an aspiring spider daddy as a snack is really not uncommon. Some species' papas are advised to bring supper to their romantic dinners to stave off their beloved's hunger. And of course spiders tend to wrap up their meals in a web burrito...?
Butr regardless there's tens of thousands of types of spider and a lot of them have pretty unique habits.