Not neutral whatsoever. My stance is actually on the shipping aspect of it as there's a lot of subtext towards it. I simply state why both stances can exist in the first place and neither one is right nor wrong.
You didn't exactly deny it, but you did dismiss it at first glance when you reduced it to nothing more than "shipping goggles". That's pretty charged language so trying to say it wasn't otherwise would be disingenuous.
Feel any better or not is irrelevant. The same way you, and those who commented towards you, said whatever they said, I can do the same. Same for you as well. Beyond that, you are also the one who started it so trying to make it seem as if it's something that came to be without your initial involvement is also disingenuous.
And finally, opinion or not, you will always find people who dislike or like your opinions for whatever reason. But that's not exactly what's happening here with alot of your comments. Its more so your actions and choice of words that lead others to believe you are standing on some sort of neutral ground, yet being very opiniated, and judgmental.