Imo you guys would have a better time reading the LN. They're all available in order and significantly superior to the anime. I will never stop ranting about how the anime's adaptation is so incredibly shoddy.
Really, the problem I have with "trap is a slur" is unlike other slurs, trap is very heavily dependent on context and everyone seems to willingly ignore that. No I won't stop using trap, I never even call a trans person a trap.