Any proofs about Amatella's red flags? I meant serious ones.
Only the male is bad. Bad at thinking mostly. Anyway, I doubt that the author will show us how bad to be such indecisive coward jerk. Romcoms rarely do that.
It doesn't work in such way even amongst adults. A good-looking adult woman never goes for that mediocre man. If she is divorced and has kids or her beauty is vanished then could be.