Oh, you can look at it the other way around. Since you have low self esteem you can take criticism, just look at it coldly and you'll be able to discern what is just shit talking for the lol.
It's actually subversive to have the straight female character to stay straight no matter the circumstances. I think in manga culture it's way too common to have the females as bisexual, if not ambiguous.
Then it's an ideology issue. I don't think a wife should do that, does it even work the other way too? Anyways, thanks for adding to the discussion, I think I got a bit more of an understanding.
Well, I can see trigger liking this... But they are more into american media and otaku culture, even little witch academia had sci-fi like stuff. And panty and stocking has more of of a cartoony style.
What's all this hate for Gollnir's wife about? She can have her own opinion, even if it kills her husband... Because that's each one's decision.
There were also no hard feelings in any party, wich is impressive.
I think they've fallen into a false dichotomy: they could have preserved the knowledge and make it secret so a selective circle could develop a solution in the future. Gollnit had disciples, after all...
So, a third way was very much possible.