Normally, I'd tell someone off for using the r slur. But, as an Autistic person, I'll give this one a pass. Especially since I headcanon Phil and her blood relatives to be Autistic.
I love Sable so much. He doesn't get mad at her for beating up her brother (a foreign Prince) but because she might hurt herself using her soft delicate hands. And he hands her a belt! What a King!
Honestly, I can't even blame him for not understanding what love is, if that's what he grew up around. His concept of love is the opposite of what he feels for Abigail, so he doesn't think he loves her, he cares so much more deeply.