I'm not defending it. Peeping is a crime and rightfully so. However, accidental one wouldn't be. All I've been saying that she should let it slide as it's nothing compared to what she received from Nie Li. Yet she's saying she can't forgive him. Dunno about your strawmans, but if even after experiencing the power of the new technique she still considers knowing her body has a birthmark worth more than that technique, she's most certainly considering her body truly godly.
You don't know she didn't have female friends when she was five years old. Some little girl claims she's friends with the city lord's daughter, some brat calls it a lie and tells her to prove it. The little girl tells the city lord's daughter has a birthmark she wouldn't know if they haven't been in a bath together. Etc.
Anyway, in my first post I already said she's so cute I forgive her, so this argument is more or less a waste of time. I'm not seriously accusing her of anything.