My nigga you are asking for a reverse-trap, not a tomboy. The definition of what constitutes a tomboy is vague and far reaching, but is usually more to do with personality and interests, but a reverse-trap is clear and straightforward to understand because it's all about appearances. Your concerns also seem to be about appearances. Yes, tomboys can overlap with reverse-traps, but not all tomboys are such. Both things are good, but I need you to understand that there distinguishment to make communication more clear.