Maybe it's just my view on the relationships, but when in one of the chapters the ex said something about the resposibility with his new partner and so on, I honestly didn't get it. They're just two people in the relationship, and people break up all the time, so what's so bad about it? I mean, what if he broke up with that guy? Yeah, he would've been hurt, but isn't he hurting now too? I mean his partner. Well, and he himself too. He's just delaying the inevitable. He put himself in this trap and I don't pity him. Maybe I'm just too calculating.