It's possible having 5 kids could still be within their means though? they could be wealthy and capable within the context of this story, lmao. and what's this about dodging bullets, it's not like people automatically get 5 kids - saying "child factory" like there's no room for nuance and as if planning was an impossibility. It isn't the prerogative of the former guy to take responsibility as well, they're living their own lives and apparently moved on. Also, having 5 kids might not all be downsides - there's an implication that she gets tired managing her kids, but who says she doesn't appreciate the parenthood lifestyle regardless. I know some families have a vested interest and actively plan on raising lots of children successfully, rather than it only being incidentally the case. It's not unprecedented and it's not doomed for failure. How likely it is and irl circumstances aside, investing your energy into taking the most bad faith or pessimistic interpretation and fabricating a negative narrative to cope, for innocuous things like this, isn't a healthy mindset imo.it feel like the person dodge a bullet here.... getting married with child factory its not funny thing in this modern age ...
plus with inflation hit really hard in japan ....
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