A Single Aristocrat Enjoys a Different World: The Graceful Life of a Man Who Never Gets Married - Ch. 13.1

[IrregularPerson]

he just doesn't want to get hit with collateral marriage blessings

 

[Milanin]

what makes asexuals a "disgrace" to them?

Basically what the others said.

If you're not a going for sex, why do you exist type of logic. Repeatedly repeat on loop.

It's basically the antithesis for Bi and shunned by both Hetero (peers and opposite) and Homo.

The only people I've found to accept me are Lesbian or people from ages of knowing me and just giving up trying to convince me otherwise after a few years.

 

[Quarterdane]

Do you see me at corner?

yep ~~ that's me at wedding party.

I thought that was you in the spotlight, losing your religion.

 

[MrGrinns]

Oh cool, months of waiting between chapters and nothing fucking happens. Thats just swell

 

[AzzoleOddone]

It's just that when we get flak, it's usually from everyone. We lack sexuality in a community that celebrates sexuality, and oftentimes, members of the LGBTQ+ community can be just as hurtful to us as any other group, especially bi/pan sexuals who are attracted to everyone and are unable to understand us. For straight people and gay people, we can at least be like "well how do you feel about x gender you're not attracted to", but because we can't use that example for them, they're often less able to understand us and can, in their lack of understanding, easily talk down to us.

We get told we aren't really asexual and there's just something wrong with us and we need help, we get every variation of "you just haven't met the right person yet", we get put down for rejecting people because they "might be able to fix us", we get put down for telling people we don't like or want sex and not magically changing our minds later on in the relationship despite constantly affirming our stances, and we get put down for not having sex because "you might like it if you try it", hell, sometimes you're even considered abusive if you don't want to have sex with someone. When we have sexless romantic relationships with each other or people who otherwise don't care about sex, we're degraded as "not having a real relationship" because there's no sex, and if we do it, either to placate a partner from a different sexuality or just out of curiosity, we get called fake because "real asexuals don't have sex" from the same people that talk down to us for not having sex to begin with. We're ill or losers for not having sex, and we're liars if we do.

We're an enigma to non-asexuals, and in everyone else's minds, that means we're fair game to talk down to, to treat as if we're faking it for attention, or we're somehow lesser. Honestly, I kinda agree we're the black sheep because everyone else is on one end of the spectrum and we're on the far opposite end, and honestly, sometimes I wish we weren't considered LGBTQ+ so we didn't have to put ourselves in increasingly sexualized spaces for the sake of "pride" that oftentimes doesn't consider us. With parades becoming more about sex, society becoming more sexualized in general, and lack of experience being one of the top insults people love to throw around, it's started to feel like the world is made for everyone but us.

Someone gave you a more detailed explanation that are essentially what i think but here's some shit i've been told by hetero people more than once "You just didn't find the good person" and "You just didn't had good sex with a woman" and here's shit i've been told by people from the so called community celebrating difference with pride more than once too "You're just faking it and trying to coast on the LGBT movement for clout", "You're just in the closet and don't want to admit it", "ace is a choice not and orientation" (this one has me confused) and from both groups "You can't not love sex you just didn't find you're orientation yet".

It's funny because i've been (and still are) actually married for 14 years to an ace woman (you don't want to know the shit i've been told about this), we're just into the romance part of the relationship and not the sex part (we've tried believe me) and i'm told this shit by sad people incapable of keeping a relationship for more than half a decade, it's just that in this increasingly sexualized society people can't fathom someone being happily in a relationship without sex.

Of you somehow were offended my bad it wasn't my intention but i'm just sick of seeing people trying to put people, characters and historical figures in one of the two categories.

Basically what the others said.

If you're not a going for sex, why do you exist type of logic. Repeatedly repeat on loop.

It's basically the antithesis for Bi and shunned by both Hetero (peers and opposite) and Homo.

The only people I've found to accept me are Lesbian or people from ages of knowing me and just giving up trying to convince me otherwise after a few years.

sounds a whole lot like they're the black sheep, not yall
also, sorry

 

[LIXOUA]

chapters are up to 20 on other manga websites btw, though the image quality and translations are probably low quality

 

[Quantum_Intellect]

"At this age there are so few people who are single. For me you're a valuable friend who shared the same understanding." either they didn't share the same understanding on being single or he betrayed the "two single platonic friends avoiding relationships" dynamic.

 

[GridLite]

Finally, an update. Thank the isekai gods

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So mc is an actual loner in earth if he has that kind of mindset. It's good that he's lucky enough to get people like that on his isekai life.