Bro want her but not the child. She want the child, but bro making it hard for her to want him. He need to compromise with the crazy girl.
He and Nene like her. Just say to hell with and tell the crazy woman that yell raise the kid together and she has the majority say in the upbring. Win-win, he and Nene get to stay with their one-sided love. And crazy woman get to raise the child.