I'm tired, i am real fucking tired with this fucking mindset that getting involved with someone that is engaged is being the heroine and that not wanting to see your fiancee with another woman is being the villainess, "Oh, but the villainess is violent and mean, and she should not resort to violence to deal with this situations", yeah, okay, but the villainess only do this because the "heroine" starts in the wrong already , try to do what the so-called heroines do in real life to see what happens to you