Ohhh okay. Because if she's the one who instigates the divorce, then the people will bash Orpheus for cheating; and if it's Orpheus who instigates because she's not being a good wife, then she's the only one who suffers.
I don't know what to think... expect I still see the kindness in that plan.
I don't hate Diane, but I don't like Orpheus. The hell is he doing, not doing anything.