Artificial Temperature 36.7°C - Vol. 2 Ch. 22 - Bloodstained Bride

[bebopsushi]

Try to stay calm and collected, go along for the moment and plan my revenge, there's nothing to gain by crashing out like that
it's not like he is going to say "oh yes, you are right, you are insane, won't marry you and leave you in peace"

It’s easy to say stay calm and collected much harder to do so let me ask you this have you ever experienced being brought a family member you were expecting to see only to discover they’ve been quite obviously murdered? If you haven’t experienced it before I don’t think you have the right to say I would stay calm and collected because that’s just an assumption I assume I would act this way in this event you can never know how you’ll react to an event you’ve never experienced and yes I’ve read your other comments of you experiencing near death situations they still aren’t similar to seeing a murdered loved one

 

[shemper]

It’s easy to say stay calm and collected much harder to do so let me ask you this have you ever experienced being brought a family member you were expecting to see only to discover they’ve been quite obviously murdered? If you haven’t experienced it before I don’t think you have the right to say I would stay calm and collected because that’s just an assumption I assume I would act this way in this event you can never know how you’ll react to an event you’ve never experienced and yes I’ve read your other comments of you experiencing near death situations they still aren’t similar to seeing a murdered loved one

I'm not going to repeat myself, it doesn't magically come, it's something you do in your everyday life: when you drive, when you play, talk with others etc, and I'm not going to talk about my background to somehow convince you that self-control is one of the greatest virtue when it has been regarded as such for millennia by many civilizations and philosophers

 

[bebopsushi]

I'm not going to repeat myself, it doesn't magically come, it's something you do in your everyday life: when you drive, when you play, talk with others etc, and I'm not going to talk about my background to somehow convince you that self-control is one of the greatest virtue when it has been well-trodden for millennium

I don’t deny self control I like to practice stoicism for the most part I’m just saying if one hasn’t ever witnessed their murdered loved one being presented to them in a I don’t know degrading manner? it would be difficult to say with certainty that they would act in a certain way

 

[shemper]

I don’t deny self control I like to practice stoicism for the most part I’m just saying if one hasn’t ever witnessed their murdered loved one being presented to them in a I don’t know degrading manner? it would be difficult to say with certainty that they would act in a certain way

And I'm not saying it's easy to do or how she should feel about it, I'm saying crashing out (even in general) like that is objectively one of the worst reaction you can have

 

[bebopsushi]

And I'm not saying it's easy to do or how she should feel about it, I'm saying crashing out (even in general) like that is objectively one of the worst reaction you can have

I think it’s a very human reaction if that makes sense (please don’t ask me to make sense of this I literally can’t it just works somehow in my head)

 

[shemper]

I think it’s a very human reaction if that makes sense (please don’t ask me to make sense of this I literally can’t it just works somehow in my head)

I wouldn't say human because it's also a behavior (being a slave to your emotions/needs) that you find with other animals, the best example as it's the closest to us are dogs:
-people see small dogs as something cute so they don't train them: chihuahuas, they think them being always angry and furious is funny (I personally find it very sad);
-meanwhile you have big dogs like german shepherds or belgian malinois who are often very trained and won't have any difficulty to keep themselves in check (self control)

 

[bebopsushi]

I wouldn't say human because it's also a behavior (being a slave to your emotions/needs) that you find with other animals, the best example as it's the closest to us are dogs:
-people see small dogs are something cute so they don't train them: chihuahuas, people laugh because they think them being always angry and furious is funny (I personally find it very sad);
-meanwhile you have big dogs like german shepherds or belgian malinois who are often very trained and won't have any difficulty to keep themselves in check (self control)

I’ve heard that malinois are like crackheads they always have to be stimulated or they go haywire

 

[shemper]

I’ve heard that malinois are like crackheads they always have to be stimulated or they go haywire

they are a breed that requires a lot of training, there's a reason why police and military forces often use them
edit: tbf, it's the case for many shepherd/working dogs, not just the malinois