@Iqbalfauzana There's a lot of investment and commitment that you're putting in when choosing to marry someone, and it's not just about living together either. With marriage comes needing to fit your lives together emotionally, legally and financially. And if you're still not 100 percent sure whether or not you're going to be with that person forever, it may be too big of a commitment. If anything, I think living together before getting married can be a very helpful thing, because there are lots of habits we don't realise about someone until we live with them and see them every day. If you move in together while dating and find out you both can't actually manage well together, you can break up and move out. But if you're married, it's not that easy and a lot of the time some people feel forced to stay in the relationship. Of course, there's nothing wrong with marrying first and then only moving in together. There can be religious or social reasons to get married first, or maybe you feel secure enough to just move in and get married straight away. But yeah, that's just my insights. I also come from a country that looks down on moving in together before marriage, but I try my best to do what I think is going to be the best decision for the sake of me and my girlfriend without paying too much attention to what other people say.