Awww that's sad to see. I think she made the right move though breaking it off before things went further or got more complicated. As much as she might like him, it's important to share the values and goals you consider most important. She cares about having defined commitment and some structure and I don't think he's in that place. In fact, I don't think he realizes the very things he's labelling as a bother or that can be put off are actually her goals/dreams.