Bocchi no Boku ni Kyousei Kanojo ga Yattekita - Vol. 4 Ch. 27

[MangaDex]

 

[Kaarme]

The kind of conversation the dude should have with Asano. If she wants a long, perhaps permanent relationship with him, this is something she needs to know. Of course he could change and his distrust in relationships might never affect them, not even after 30 years into marriage, but maybe it would. It's not exactly a small thing.

It's understandable why he never had this kind of conversation with her. After all, he thought it's all over in three months and the whole thing only exists to make the mentally unstable mother feel better. In that scenario, the less Asano knows, the better. He's not a scumbag, so from his own point of view, he can't enter a permanent relationship hiding such a weakness in his character (should you call it that).

 

[Elcief_SSN]

Ngl from a realistic perspective Suhei is right.
If you are thinking of living your life with someone Suhei can't be considered a good option. All the things aside his mental instability is a serious concern.
Unless those problems can be addressed Asano really is too good for him.

 

[TNT261]

Somehow these chapters escaped my radar. Anyway, I like the conversation here. He's not hiding from anything or skirting around the issue, but he doesn't really know how to confront it. He also feels this massive divide and there's so many mental health issues and especially self-confidence issues there. I truly believe he never considered their relationship as anything more than a three month stunt spurred on by his mother who herself is a source of emotional turmoil for him. There's a lot to unpack there, and that's understandable; however, ultimately this isn't his decision to make alone. It's up to Asano if she wants to be with him. The last chapter made it seem like he's afraid of having another person to care for after what happened in his childhood, but this chapter makes it seem more like he just doesn't think he himself is deserving of Asano. Both thoughts are probably driving his current inaction, but its impossible to solve either without just talking to her. It's not even his decision alone to make. His current state is reasonable but frustrating. I will say that keeping her on "hold" is actually awful. If she is making attempts to reach other than he really should give some type of response. Right now is literally a situationship ON HOLD what the hell even is that? And it's been a month? Dude, that's bad, and it's only going to get worse if he keeps spiraling. Inaction IS action.

 

[xTachibana]

Ngl from a realistic perspective Suhei is right.
If you are thinking of living your life with someone Suhei can't be considered a good option. All the things aside his mental instability is a serious concern.
Unless those problems can be addressed Asano really is too good for him.

That's not for him to decide tho....I get being self deprecating, but ultimately, if a woman decides she loves and wants to be with you, telling her no because YOU think you aren't worthy of her just makes you come across like an asshole.
She's the one who decides that, not you. Clearly she sees something in you that you don't, the least you could do is humor her. At least if you tell me you don't have any interest in her at all, I would say there's no need to entertain it, but if you love her back? I really dislike people who do this weird self sacrifice BS because they think they're unworthy of someone else.