.... When I said you should be slapping them cheeks... That's not what I meant
But fr, I can understand where his mindset might be, I had to work for a few weeks helping to build a country house (lots and lots of lifting heavy stones) from dawn to dusk, and coming back home every night, which was supposed to be a place where I could rest both physically and mentally, only to find frowning family members who would barely talk to me just made me feel miserable.
Still, not cool