Ok... As an Asian I understand the pleasing pressure and the peer pressure but girl you gotta stop at some point. As my sister says underhand unawareness.
"Apologies, I don't actually work here as I'm not a high-end chef. And won't require a kitchen of this caliber as I am a commoner who doesn't know how to use this complex setup. I'm sorry to say but I can only make so much time focusing on one single customer. I strive to satisfy plenty of people so, no I don't need more money. I'm also busy so spending so much time catering to you is having a negative effect on my business and I was actually here to tell you that despite your... Interesting "invites" I will no longer be serving you. Hehe."