I could far more easily like this if the ML wasn't so rape happy
It might not feel like it when reading, it isn't given the proper gravity in the situation, but she is clearly uninterested in having sex with him.
She wants to talk - he wants sex.
That is not consent.
Being married is also not consent.
ML should just be happy she lets him have a mistress and stop trying to sex her up. She can't even remember it, for Fs sake.
Zero consideration on his part.