i don't even think the 'mother in hospital' story is true. i can understand if she is a fangirl who spends money on idol merchs, albums, or concerts eventhough they're a waste of money they're still for yourself and your own satisfaction/happiness/experience etc
but she does all that, spends all that money for a cute but shady guy who's not even her boyfriend? while she's given dirt and dust?
girl.... use your brain at least once in your life