Danjo-hi 1:5 no Sekai demo Futsuu ni Ikirareru to Omotta? ~Gekiomoi Kanjou na Kanojo-tachi ga Mujikaku Danshi ni Honrou Saretara~ - Vol. 3 Ch. 10

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I find it funny that the mom basically got her Shiori a tutor to set her up with a man. If she frequently goes to the boy bars and is a friend of Aika’s then I think it’s likely she could have seen Masato at the bar and picked him out for her daughter.
Unfathomably based 200IQ mom.

The mom also mentions that "there are less guys these days." That implies that the gender disparity might be a recent change. Thay would explain why Japan is only considering legalizing polygamy NOW. I wonder if we're going to get any more lore drops, or if the author is just going to stick to girls thirsting and going literally insane over the ONE good man in their lives.
 
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oh, so he "was raised to be kind to everyone", but never learned how to appropriately manage and distinguish/prioritize relationships depending on their context? And thinks "that's just not for me"?

Dude will be lucky if he isn't murdered before the end of this. That is not how you live life even in the "normal world", much less the one where women have to fight tooth and claw just to get a boy's attention.
I do like the fact he was always like this tho: girls even in our world liked him for basically the same qualities than the ones here, and they got jealous for the same reasons.

Tho here in this world there's less choice so they re less willig to dump him and more ready to go yandere because there's a real possibility they won't find someone like him again...which is both good and bad for him
 
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Based on what Masato is saying here I don't think he's ever felt romantic love before this. Even if you're kind to everyone you will treat the people around you differently but based on his girlfriend breaking up with him over not doing that then it seems he doesn't do that even subconsciously. He might not even be able to feel romantic love at all. If this extends further and he can't treat anyone differently (obviously not including antagonistic people) then I would go onto to say he can't feel familial love either. I don't remember, but I don't recall him displaying lust either. So maybe he can't feel any kind of love at all. If true it would be interesting to see how this effects relationship in a world where men increasingly don't existence.

Another question is did Masato have friends in his original world or did they gradually distance themselves, like his girlfriends did, after discovering he treats his friends the same as total strangers?
Theorizing he doesn't feel love at all just because he doesn't differentiate is way too extreme. He very obviously care and values people, his behavior isn't a mask, that's his real self.

I do agree he hasn't felt real romance yet (what he thinks of the girls vs what they think of him is just not comparable) but even then there are people whose love isn't some finite ressource that's just allocated.
 
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Alright, so if a girl that seems down and possibly insecure about her looks tells you "I'm not even good looking" despite being beautiful, you'd respond how exactly?

What if a cold response there furthers her insecurities and possibly messes up her life? Telling people positive things and reassuring them isn't "flirting".

Also he realizes he's too close sometimes and backs off and apologizes for it, and doesn't do it intentionally or in a romantic or suggestive way.

Honestly if I was dating some girl and she got mad at me for helping someone, or reassuring someone that they aren't ugly, I would probably dump her because that's taking jealousy a little too far.
You can see it IRL with women too: Some women are "kind to everyone" and will frequently be interpreted as interested by many men even if they didn't mean anything by it(it doesn't even necessarily mean you got no chance, but they re not ttargettig anyone), But other women will only do the exact same things only when flirting. I don't think either are really wrong on its own even if it's frustrating when you re the side that falls in love.
 
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I imagine it would depend on whether he's doing that sort of stuff in front of the girl he was dating at the time or not.
We obviously don't get the full picture and only his (possibly biased/unreliable) interpretation of his behavior in the past. But, call me crazy, I'd probably be a little miffed if I was hanging out with my boyfriend and he was praising the looks over others girls or going off to help them out, in the exact same manner he did with me, and I was there in front of him while he did it.

To me it sounds like the ML never learned the nuances of relationships and the ins and outs of the hierarchy of importance that people can have in one's life relative to their 'relationship position'. Maybe (likely) that's a result of his being raised in an orphanage, without stable & long-term parental figures and children his age with whom he could build actual friendships.

If that's the case, then he's a sympathetic figure in that regard, but however well it worked out for him in his "normal world", the rules are very different where he is now, and that same sort of behavior might prove detrimental if not outright dangerous where women latch on much more readily to any man who shows kindness & consideration, but have not "other options" to go to if they face competition for that man's attention from other women, and thus might be more assertive/aggressive in "staking their claim", whether toward other women, or the ML himself.

In that sense, it's in his best interest to unlearn that behavior before it starts causing him real problems that he's remained relatively unaware of due to the circumstances of not running into multiple other characters simultaneously in any considerable degree.
I wouldn't call you crazy, but i sure would be miffed if my gf got mad at me for helping others on the rationale we have to impose hierarchy on relationships. It's one thing if we re talking about cheating or not or if the behavior is clearly not in character(someone who never even looked at a stranger coincidentally becomes butler level attentive for attractive people for example is just too sus) but to me being in a relationship isn't taking from everything else just to be "exclusive"
 
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Do our fantasy stories give a reason for the male lead to be in love with the female lead though? I feel like we've hit a point where a lot of fantasy romance coast on the idea of "they're the two lead hotties so they should kiss".
In this story?He sees most of everyone in a positive girls, the women in his unintentional harem a bit more than others(even admires them to an extent). But so far nothing suggest he has feelings for any of them yet. OL is his client in his host job, ruika he sees as a little sister, this ch girl is his student and highschooler and he just met her, Koumi friend he just met and thinks she likes someone else's, Koumi has no real barrier, but he is under the impression she is popular with guys,( and tbf she is popular with girls at least and probably could with guys but she doesn't want arrogant types.). Her bouts of jealousy should have clued him but tbh she also hasn't really made her move either

in general?Romance stories generally will give a reason, for stories where romance is secondary, the assumption the mc is a heterosexual male having a positive and frequent relationship with a fmc is often quite enough. Not saying they never develop those feelings, but when romance isn't the point of the story it's something you can skimp on
 

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