I'll never grow tired of this series. It was my favorite in high school and finished around the time I went to college.
At first, I thought it was some fluffy SoL story about a plucky girl and a group of young people who transform into zodiac animals (plus a cat). But of course, if you're reading this you know the story is so much deeper.
Ultimately, Fruits Basket is a story about learning to love. Learning to accept and love yourself, of course, and learning to love others. But mostly, learning how to accept another's love. That was the key--Tohru loved everyone. When you can accept that someone else loves you, that is the ultimate self-affirmation.
Live at your own pace. Have a forgiving heart. And love--open yourself to loving and being loved.