Hanayome wa Motodanshi. - Vol. 1 Ch. 2 - Her Days as a Guy

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This chapter brings up a great point- everyones experiences of gender is different! Even though a lot of times people define it by dysphoria (discomfort with/negative feelings about being perceived as the wrong gender), that's not the sole deciding factor! Theres also Gender *Euphoria*! The happiness of being perceived correctly or of having your appearance feel right. And to me the happiness in this chapter is definitely the same.

For instance, I don't actually have serious problems with my body (tho I get dysphoria from other things), but having my voice change and my face sharpen made me incredibly happy 💖

Also her mom being so sweet makes me happy... *my* mom always said whenever someone comes out to you, you should get them a cake (or similar) to celibrate. I feel like having your coming of age ceremony is kind of the same feeling.
 
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She had such amazing luck that her family was so welcoming.

This sadly is not how it's like for most who come out like she did.
 
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Really good information, as well for the overview, correcting gid to gender dysphoria is absolutely gold
 
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Wow, it's scary how closely her personal experience matches mine (can't say that about family though unfortunately). Happy to have found this.
 

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