Harapeko Oyako to Motokare Yanushi - Ch. 28

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It is weird to keep it as romanji instead of translating, but some people like keeping it that way, bit similar to using "senpai" instead of "upperclassmen", "senior" or "superior", I like in some cases but find it weird in others.

貴方 in particular I like cause it has a sense of closeness that I don't get from "darling" or "dear", it's word that might be nearly offensive in any other context. Since it plainly means "you", I initially thought of it like "the only you" or like "You", or the "you" that matters the most in my world. Which is only my own perspective and I doubt that makes it a good style, but it's my personal reason for liking it.

Still, in this case I do think it's better to use the proper translation instead of just using romanji, I just like imagining a character saying 貴方, and reading "anata" helps with that. An example where I think just using romanji would be better is "senpai" on spanish TLs, afaik we don't really have a good word such as "upperclassmen" or "senior", anything that fits requires more than one word and just becomes overly wordy and unnatural.
Yeah for me honorifics when addressing someone, like san kun chan senpai should stay because we are used to reading those in english anyways, but if you are speaking english it sounds weird to attach honorifics when speaking. Something about internalizing vs externalitizing.
 
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Thank you for the translation!

I was about to call it cute, but must change it to precious! This is precious! :)
 
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Glad to see all the stupid haters stopped posting on this series. Now, if only that rating could kindly go up to at least 9 or something it'd be great...
 
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I know she's a teen and that we were all like that and it's a normal phase, etc...

BUT DAMNIT, BRAT !!! MAKE UP YOUR FUCKING MIND ALREADY !!!
 
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Idk if this series is really 9 worthy though. It's good but not that good.

Subjectivity aside, it absolutely has been bombed/brigaded by haters that have artificially shoved the MD rating down. It should, by rights, be at least above an 8. The only reason it's not is because a fair number of people saw that Minori wasn't/couldn't be Takaharu's kid and lost their minds at the audacity of the author to tell a mature story.
 
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Subjectivity aside, it absolutely has been bombed/brigaded by haters that have artificially shoved the MD rating down. It should, by rights, be at least above an 8. The only reason it's not is because a fair number of people saw that Minori wasn't/couldn't be Takaharu's kid and lost their minds at the audacity of the author to tell a mature story.
Yeah it's honestly so sad to see how much misogyny exists in the romance genre. The inequality that exists between gender roles in these types of stories. The same types of people who will praise a MMC for having a body count will absolutely try and demolish a female character's credibility simply because she had the audacity to even look at another guy.
 
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Subjectivity aside, it absolutely has been bombed/brigaded by haters that have artificially shoved the MD rating down. It should, by rights, be at least above an 8. The only reason it's not is because a fair number of people saw that Minori wasn't/couldn't be Takaharu's kid and lost their minds at the audacity of the author to tell a mature story.
I mean going by the websites normal rankings yeah 8.
Personally I view this as a low 7, it's good at what it does.
 
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But why would she call him 貴方 tho 😭

I guess it's the most common use of 貴方 because you don't typically say "You" in japanese due to it being rude.

Anata as in darling/dear, though I think it's usually spelled あなた. You should have heard it plenty of times in anime by now
I think it's more common to just call them other terms though...like their name, or familial title (otou-san or jii-san)
 
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I mean going by the websites normal rankings yeah 8.
Personally I view this as a low 7, it's good at what it does.
Yeah like, it's just a fine manga, i don't think it has much going for it.

It's one super slow burn slice of life where most of the time the author is trying to tell nothing.
 
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Anata as in darling/dear, though I think it's usually spelled あなた. You should have heard it plenty of times in anime by now
I think it's more common to just call them other terms though...like their name, or familial title (otou-san or jii-san)
Yes it occurs more often in anime and manga, but in traditional spoken japanese it is almost a taboo word. Unless it is used on say a husband, but even then you will not hear it often because it would be something a wife calls her husband at home.

The kanji for it is more rarely used than the hiragana when it is in literature.

The reason it is almost taboo to use it in the general public of Japan is because it is considered rude. When speaking to someone it can be taken as almost shining a spotlight on them. It causes the subject to feel almost cornered, so usually you either omit the subject, or you use their name first or last depending on how close you are. Often times in spoken japanese the subject is omitted if it can easily be implied.
 
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Yes it occurs more often in anime and manga, but in traditional spoken japanese it is almost a taboo word. Unless it is used on say a husband, but even then you will not hear it often because it would be something a wife calls her husband at home.

The kanji for it is more rarely used than the hiragana when it is in literature.

The reason it is almost taboo to use it in the general public of Japan is because it is considered rude. When speaking to someone it can be taken as almost shining a spotlight on them. It causes the subject to feel almost cornered, so usually you either omit the subject, or you use their name first or last depending on how close you are. Often times in spoken japanese the subject is omitted if it can easily be implied.

Yeah obviously lol because if you say it to a random person it just means "You" which is rude. But the point of the meme edit he made is that she's calling him darling like she's his wife, that's why he said it was fixed. It's not the only ones either, Anata, Kimi, omae, kisama, all rude. But anyways, that's irrelevant, the context of the edited image is that she's acting like or is his wife.
 
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Yeah like, it's just a fine manga, i don't think it has much going for it.

It's one super slow burn slice of life where most of the time the author is trying to tell nothing.
It does what it sets out to do well. It's enjoyable to read but I don't really think about it until it pops back up.
When it comes to slice of lives that really do stick in my memory there isn't many, probably mainly the spice and wolf sequels.
 
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Yeah obviously lol because if you say it to a random person it just means "You" which is rude. But the point of the meme edit he made is that she's calling him darling like she's his wife, that's why he said it was fixed. It's not the only ones either, Anata, Kimi, omae, kisama, all rude. But anyways, that's irrelevant, the context of the edited image is that she's acting like or is his wife.
In english context most of the time we use "You" it is not considered rude tho. Like asking "How are you?" Isn't considered rude, but in Japanese it would be rude to say あなたお元気ですか?

If you also look at my other comment I mentioned that in the context it makes sense, but it still makes no sense to use the romanized version of あなた (貴方)instead of just using "darling" or "dear".
 
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Subjectivity aside, it absolutely has been bombed/brigaded by haters that have artificially shoved the MD rating down. It should, by rights, be at least above an 8. The only reason it's not is because a fair number of people saw that Minori wasn't/couldn't be Takaharu's kid and lost their minds at the audacity of the author to tell a mature story.
Ratings on MD are worthless anyway, worse than those on MAL and similar sites. Almost every manga, no matter how shitty, is rated like 9+, except those that have any kind of controversy in first chapter, which get something like between 4 and 6?

Probably because so few people read specific manga, compared to anime watchers checking out seasonal shows on MAL, so average reader is gonna rate manga they looked for and selected themselves to read, that's why the ratings are so uselessly high - unless they found a manga that they though they're gonna like, but ended up hating it, like with this manga, or that childhood friend romcom turned into edgy drama by White Album author, or any kind of sudden NTR, in which case the ratings are uselessly low. There is just no point to ever look at them or bother about the score.
 

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