Ohhhh boy the deep conversation is coming!!! I think grampa is going to say he'll let Huan Wen do whatever he wants, but he'll say he doesn't exactly approve and would prefer for him to build a traditional family.... which is fine, honestly. not everyone fully understands and thinks it's ok, especially old people, but if he stops pressuring Huan Wen, I think it'll be enough relief for him
thank you so much for translating this as always!