Ugghhhh, she's not getting hurt or hurting anyone, and in fact, she's smiling more and more now! I understand you're worried for her, and want to protect her, you've never intended to and tried your best not to hurt her which I applaud you for that. But, people have prejudice against her because of how she looks and her way of presenting herself before but she isn't like what they think at all. By applying that to the people, especially those she deeply cares for, what better are you? You're still hurting her, in a sense, that's just more justifiable by society because it's just under the name of love. But what difference does it make if the results are the same?
Gosh! I'm having flashbacks now!!