Poor A-chan. Planned her whole life around becoming the next Duchess, only to be stuck with a sore excuse of a prince instead…
What? How? I mean, it's true that it would be a different girl instead of her, if not for Rosemyne, but "neglecting" have nothing to do with Rosemyne. Prince is just that much of an overconfident asshole, and already have "woman that he loves". Without rosemyne, it would just be him neglecting a different girl in the same way.The prince neglecting her can be partly attributed to Rozemyne's shenanigan.
What? How? I mean, it's true that it would be a different girl instead of her, if not for Rosemyne, but "neglecting" have nothing to do with Rosemyne. Prince is just that much of an overconfident asshole, and already have "woman that he loves". Without rosemyne, it would just be him neglecting a different girl in the same way.
Ah... if the "something most important" was the discussions of Rosemain case - fair enough.He maybe a self-centered ass but he's also proficient enough at the social game to not piss off one of your most powerful supporter by ditching a SCHEDULED dinner for no reason.
Which mean the dinner with other royals, the conversation topic being latest of Rozemyne's actions, was just that important.
Heck
his failure to honor his side of the deal was what led to Adolphine divorcing him and Drewanchel having a strong position to criticize his actions in Hannelore's 5th Year
Ah... if the "something most important" was the discussions of Rosemain case - fair enough.
That said, i still don't really agree with that. It was said clear as day, and multiple times at that, that she hates him exactly for him being "self-centered ass".
Him failing to honour his side of a deal was just an excuse to divorce that she was waiting for a long time, not an actual reason why she wants that divorce. She was like - "Yes, yes! Finally i have some leverage to end this!"
Don't take me wrong, i completely agree with you on all of that. When she was engaged with him, he was like "Damn, i really don't want that, but that's just how it works. Politics isn't for me to decide, and i need to play my part, it's my duty".I didn't say anything about her feelings though?
She's willing to marry him for the benefit of her duchy regardless of her own personal feelings anyway.
While there's a lot of marriages with mutual feelings, there's also a fair amount of purely political ones.
Even if she used his failure to divorce him, that just goes to show how much nobles care about reputation that she still had to find the perfect excuse/circumstances to do it.
in particular the loss of authority of royals AND that there's a bigger authority figure in the room she's willing to ask about divorce option
I was only disagreed on your "The prince neglecting her can be partly attributed to Rozemyne's shenanigan"~~~this won't change even without Rosemyne.
Well, i disagree. Yes, he literally married Adolphine as 1st wife, but he didn't, as you said, "move" his actual lover to 2nd wife. She was originated from middle duchy, and due to fear of political instability, it was decided from the very start that she would be his 2nd wife, even when his 1st wife was still undecided.Umm, yes it would? As I said he's played the politic game enough to not just piss off one of his biggest supporter for no reason (he literally married Adolphine as 1st wife to get Drewanchel's support and move his actual lover to 2nd wife)
Meaning for things of lesser importance the royals wouldn't need to convene in such haste that make him mess his schedule like this.
When I said neglecting her I meant in this instance alone, not that he's always doing this to her.
I'll repeat, NOTHING would change without Rosemyne. Even that particular scene, where he failed to arrive to dinner, Adolphine isn't angry just because he was too busy, but rather just surprised. She is angry, because he didn't deemed necessary to inform her about it. THAT is his neglect and disregard, and it is cemented in his character, since he believes that he is more important than everyone else. In his mind, he married her, Drewanchel got their connection to royalty and vice versa, and done with it.
You said that he is proficient enough in politics to not piss off his wife without a good reason? Wrong. Or else he wouldn't fail to inform recipement about cancelation of dinner. He just didn't deem it important enough, his self-centered ass interfere with his decision making in politics.
Should i repeat again - Adolphine isn't angry just because he was too busy, but rather just surprised. She is angry, because he didn't deemed necessary to inform her about it. THAT is his neglect and disregard, and it is cemented in his character, since he believes that he is more important than everyone else.What else did you think the dinner with royals he mentioned was about if not what Rozemyne did that day?
What OTHER reason would he has to abandon a dinner he already accepted on his schedule?
And no, he's not so delusional that he think he can get away with everything, otherwise why would he
need to make up reasons to convince other duchies into supporting him trying to get Hannelore
Hey, i'm not saying that he is not proficient in it. I'm saying that argument "He is proficient, so surely he wouldn't do it" is faulty. He knows his politics, but he completely oblivious about reaction of others. Before Rosemyne showed up and completely obliterated his common sense by being painfully blunt with him, he was absolutely sure that most of his decision was accepted by others normally and not "with bloodshot eyes while grinding their teeth". Again, i repeat that - he didn't see not informing about changes of plans as a problem, and he is painfully unaware how much his 1st wife learned to hate him. He thought that this was of no consequences whatsoever. It wasn't exactly "politic" that he was so proficient in, but interpersonal relation between political figures (Sigiswald and Adolphine), that will affect politics in the future, but he was too dumb to foresee that. He openly looked down on her, and didn't even realized that. In his mind, he was a good host for her.THE AUTHOR already wrote into the story that he's competent at playing politics, so unless you want to disagree with her eh.
That was long afterwards, where he lost his position as next zent, and obviously need to accomodate to changes
he didn't see not informing about changes of plans as a problem, and he is painfully unaware how much his 1st wife learned to hate him. He thought that this was of no consequences whatsoever. It wasn't exactly "politic" that he was so proficient in, but interpersonal relation between political figures (Sigiswald and Adolphine), that will affect politics in the future, but he was too dumb to foresee that. He openly looked down on her, and didn't even realized that. In his mind, he was a good host for her.
He isn't aware that he has a bad marriage with Adolphine, so he doesn't think there's a problem.I'm pretty sure he's aware it's a problem, he just figured it's not as important as finding Grutrissheit.
The ex-royal treatment was on the matter of duchy rank, not treatment of their persons. Any uplift in standing ran entirely on his reputation as former crown prince, which he was happy to bask in and exploit, even almost forcing the No.1 duchy to marry their daughter to him after Dreganhur's descent. He stopped being a prince by the ADConf prior to HY5 (or Eggy's inauguration but not sure), but social inertia seemed to keep his standing high. The bride-stealing ditter fiasco seem poised to deal with that.no, he still acted like he's a royal BECAUSE this is still within the 1 year of ex-royals still being treated as one agreement
He isn't aware that he has a bad marriage with Adolphine, so he doesn't think there's a problem.
The ex-royal treatment was on the matter of duchy rank, not treatment of their persons.