I get she doesn't want him to love her so when she thinks she'll die soon, he won't feel pain, but... derp girl, wrong answer.
Wait, how is it advancing too fast? This pace is reasonable, especially with how she thinks she's going to die anyways (so why delay things) and the way he is :O sadness you feel that way... sad you guys are dropping it. Oh well. I hope someone well pick it up (and this is in part why I don't mind when multiple groups work on things cause, who knows when one might want to drop a series)