@Writerfromanotherstar:
That logic doesn't hold up at all if the premise is, for instance, that Yse is being horribly deceitful in the first place. (I have reserved final judgement on Yse for now, mind, but I disagree with your premise here)
Also, in this instance a total apples-to-oranges comparison—between how she reacts to social pressure from someone she currently considers a friend, versus from another village girl who was gallivanting around flirting with her boyfreind back when they were together?
Furthermore, the evidence so far is that she's definitely concerned about both social pressures and about maintaining some independence for herself. A whole bunch of the series has been her compromising between the two. The idea that she's going to be totally immune to manipulative machinations because she
sometimes puts her foot down just doesn't really seem to hold up. :/