It’s always something surreal to me that a harem hentai somehow is able to produce more romantic and wholesome lore than a number of romcoms.
because they confront and facing their feeling head on instead being unsecured and playing mind game. They committed to their relationship, understand what they want out front of it.
simple words: Harem Hentai MC is chad that believe himself love those girls and believes those girls also truly love him. Hentai harem girl also just go straight to the point about their feeling and what they want and expect from MC
romcom MC just beta male that overthinking and oblivious to their harem member. not to mention the harem member playing hard to get game and used roundabout way to convey their feeling.