@Kaarme: They worship the ground he is walking on...for now. I might have been a bit to harsh on that young one and you're right on the matter, that those youths love him and MC's reputation with them is in no danger at this point. But I believe this doesn't hold true for the elder refugees. Sure, they are happy to have found a place to stay, but as with the girls parents, I fear there are quite some of them, who only see the villagers as children including MC.
If there are authority undermining processes to start at some point, that starting point is about right now. The more MC's authority is undermined, the harder it will get to return it, where it used to be. Strike that. It will be hard enough to keep it up at a high level, as I'm sure, he will face some serious trouble, that will undermine it anyways. So it's better to be on the lookout for stuff like that.
Sure his buddy is growing, so we can enter this in the books as "training costs" and he did scold him a bit, but he should have been a bit sterner about it and go into the details, even if he is a meat head. He should have told him, that he put
him into charge and he did that for a reason. It's fine to heed Earls advice, but he shouldn't just handled to ropes to him, like he seemingly did. Earl is looking out for the best of the refugees and not necessarily for the village. Something along that line.
I see that the MC neglecting this might lead up to an event, the author seemingly is preparing.