Isshou Sukitte Yutta jan - Vol. 1 Ch. 2 - Neo Dutch Wife

[HT-Stunner]

a) You can pretty easily tell people are/have been physically intimate with each other, expecially when you interact with them every day in close proximity.

b) What would she even tell them to get them to go along with something like that? "Yeah so Haru went after me and I rejected him, can you all act like we had sex together so we can break his spirit?". Doesn't seem plausible.

Then again, her fucking EVERYONE in the club is equally implausible, imo, even if they were all inexperienced virgins after she dumped one or two of them the others would probably have wised up. Unless we're meant to understand that she was fucking them all at the same time, which is even more unlikely (considering she was also supposed to be inexperienced at the beginning).

You vastly underestimate the horniness of a guys, not even otaku, that are desperate to get laid

 

[Hardkorr]

What if she just had a dick? And not like a cute, pink, feminine penis, but a really meaty, veiny, hairy, and swarthy one with encrusted smegma. Really that's the only way this story can make any sense, if you think about it. Her having a dick also recontextualizes a lot of the dialogue upon rereading it. Truly an enlightened and masterful oneshot, but only if she had a dick.

 

[akiraKurisu]

She's pretty screwed up alright...

 

[BeefSneeze]

There's no real reliable narrator to this story, so it's difficult to tell how much truth there is to the MC's statements. Knowing about the other stories the author has written, she probably did sleep with the others. An extreme response to being hurt for sure, and 100% toxic behavior, if she truly did. That's life though. Although her statement about men and women hurt each other can come off as her feeling nonchalant about the whole experience, I do think it is a sign that she grew from the experience. I'm less inclined to believe she's still a toxic person because of it. People are messy. We're incredibly stupid when we're young, and many of us never realize how dumb we were. It leads to messy relationships, and to people who are hurt hurting other people back in return. I like the premise of this story, and because of that I'm dissatisfied with it being a one-shot. Wouldn't have to be a full series, but a one-volume short story made out of this could do a lot to flesh out the girl.
As a side note, it kind of seems to me like the girl probably fell in love with him before joining the circle, and changed herself to be what she thought would appeal to him. Not in she's a "fake gamer/nerd" type of way, but rather acting the way she did (like an anime character almost), and dressing up for him and asking him to take photos of her was something she wouldn't have done for a guy she didn't feel strongly about. I think having that in mind at least makes it more understandable for why she would have such a strong negative reaction to his negative reaction of her body. Do all that because you genuinely love a guy only to see him be visibly frightened and grossed out by your pussy must be mind-shattering in it's own right. Also could be true that his friends were right about her faking being into their hobbies just so she could hang out with him, which makes his reaction kind of worse. She did all that for you buddy, and you blew it.

Homeboy, he didn't blow it, he dodged a bullet imo. If she did all of "that" over an admittedly clumsy and insensitive thing to say? It'd probably happen even if they did have sex. The good thing for him to do would be to realize that and move on, but we all process trauma differently, he couldn't take it. If what he said happened is true, that's traumatic shit.

 

[StevenSteve]

I don't understand, but it's... pretty damn depressing.

whats there to be depressed about bro. sure its pretty sad for the girl, but that MC tho? these kind of people need to touch grass honestly

 

[MonsterGirlHusband]

Finally, accurate representation of women in manga.

 

[WolfGunBlood-6969]

I don't get it. Did she really sleep with all his friends just because her virgin crush surprised to see her dark p*ssy?

 

[kittyyyyy]

IRL pussy is usually a lot darker/muted in colour, ususally hairer and the labia minora typically hangs outwards more(looser lip flaps). Hentai and eroge are very pristine, rare and idealized from the reality. Honestly, I sympathize with the guy. When I was a kid and saw a bunch vaginas for the first time on the internet I wanted to puke. Made me nauseous for like over a year to think about. You eventually get used to it. Not really a pleasing site, but better just not to say anything. Women get sensitive about that sorta thing. So you're better off just keeping appearances.

I still prefer the ideallic appearance of eroge and hentai myself. But at the end of the day porn is porn and reality is reality. I cannot deny that my dreams are better than the real thing, but all that washes away when you accept the fact that it's always just gonna be in your head and the authentic thing is always gonna exist with or without your input. So might as well just go for the flesh and blood experience instead of staring at LED screens alone all the time.

do all guys think this? im genuinely curious

 

[HT-Stunner]

do all guys think this? im genuinely curious

Can't speak for the entire male population, but when I talked about it with group chat with guy friends and IRL in high school we pretty much all agreed that we think like that. With some homies just straight up saying they just don't like how most vaginas look(Yes, a lot of them still date and get laid). So I'd wager majority, if not A LOT of guys do.

Ya gotta understand that for guys seeing a vagina for the first time there are only three things you can, generously, compare them to:
1) A peach
2) A flower with petals made of raw meat
3) A beef sandwich

And don't get me wrong. There's some tasty looking beef sandwiches out there. However, when the words "pretty", "cute" & "beautiful" come to mind the last 2 options aren't really something you'd consider a contender, right? You either learn to just lie and take em' for what they are or you start to appreciate them within the standards of other vaginas. In some rarer cases, within the context of the fact that it's a part of the chick you love then you love the VG by association. Kinda like thinking your wife's ugly toes are kinda cute. Rose tinted shades and such.

 

[Deez_Bucketz]

Read this a long time ago but saw a recent post about it and decided to check the comments. Honestly surprised how many people are defending Yumi while also crapping on En-chan. The story makes it clear that he became messed up BECAUSE of Yumi’s words / actions.

As far as a “who’s the asshole” debate, again, Yumi is clearly the bigger asshole here. En-chan had an unintentional insensitive reaction, but tried to clarify to Yumi his reaction. Instead of hearing him out, Yumi insults him and intentionally goes out of her way to get revenge on him and ruin the group.

Like other commenters have said, I don’t really see how anyone could come away with thinking Yumi’s become a better person given the bit we see of her in the present. She’s still applying blame to him, and although while acknowledging she hurt him too, did not elaborate on how much crappier what she did was. Then she just went “that’s life”. Doesn’t seem like much reflection to me on her actions.