The pain the wrong woman will bring into your life as a man is indescribable.
And I don’t even mean that in some losery incel redpill way. She can just open you up to pain you would never have felt — e.g. being (smugly) told that the kid ain’t yours... Being told that the family life you had always hoped for is a dream that’s dead… Or being sold out to your opp by someone you loved and trusted.