@IAMNOTRANA I'm glad you gave it a try then. I hate harem because most harem works are absolute shit in my opinion, but that doesn't mean everything is bad. Some are really well made. One example would be The World God Only Knows. But in everything else I felt that the harem was just a useless and bland part of the otherwise interesting story.
Anyway, I see harem tag and I don't even bother giving the description a read. I know there might be other good stuff out there, but honestly I don't have the heart to go through 999 bad ones to get to 1 good one. And I know how infuriating my actions might be to someone who actually likes harem. So I have a lot of respect for you guys who actually read things before passing a judgement on them and overlook your bias against it while reviewing it. I know even if I came to like something harem I'd still let my bias control some parts of my impression of it. I just hate it that much. But I know I'm in the wrong.
Anyway, this manga is my favourite gender bender
manga of all time...and I've read basically every gender bender out there. But its actually my 2nd favourite gender bender
story of all time. There is only one that tops this one and its a novel, Reborn as my Love Rival's Wife. If you're willing to I'd recommend giving that one a shot. Also its a hilarious novel, one of the funniest novels I've read on novelupdates. But the romance and the other somewhat serious parts pertaining to the effects of being gender bent and the matter of sexuality it manages to portray even through all the comedy is what truly sells it for me. Also the final chapters in the epilogue are some of the most heartwarming moments I've ever read.