Honestly the way the love interest is going about all of this seems a bit... rape-y...? For how it's being framed.
I suppose it wouldn't be "sexy" enough to talk about one's feelings first like remotely-healthy people. ¬_¬;
I mean his spoken feelings are apparently, "I get so horny when I'm with you," which doesn't seem like the heart-to-heart I would want with a prospective lover—but still miles better than assault.