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I think we were talking about girls who boys aren't currently in some sort of relationship with previously and being cautious of their teasing like FMC did here before this comment was brought up.
If they are in a relationship like the MC's here, though, and we're using them in this example ... I think why at least one of them is consuming pornography/erotica when they're already in a romantic relationship and whether that will pose as a problem in said relationship should be addressed, certainly. How the FMC brought it up here, though ... was not only executed poorly, but even brought up unintended ideas and suggestions that she wants to take their 'trial' relationship to the next level and make things between them go faster than neither one of them want to.
Even if she did try to pass all that off as a joke and not embarrass herself over it, even if we put the morals and standards aside, not just the MC, I think it would be normal for a guy to have doubts of how serious their girlfriend sees their relationship if they were in his shoes. It's not just about the guy being insecure, either. You'd see this sort of inappropriate/crude humor between just guys, usually, and I can't fathom how often girls gossip each other's sex lives. If either the boy or girl in a relationship joke around the subject like they do with their peers, will they make that moment between them a joke to their peers, as well? Making their boyfriend/girlfriend a laughingstock behind their back? That's the underlying concern that should be addressed here.
And before anyone says 'Jeez, can't the guy/girl take a joke?', the moment that question is asked will be the exact moment one of them knows how their relationship is perceived. The punch line is when it's time to leave it.
