That's bullshit you should change yourself to get a relationship. The only people who say that are people who want to make excuses for why they're single.It's funny, normally people say you shouldn't change yourself to get someone's attention or to have a relationship, but it's only when you're changing yourself for the better that the suggestion shouldn't apply. That 'if you don't love me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best' thing that some spout just won't work in this case. MC here's just that down bad for the girl here to kind of overlook her bad habits.