I had one brother in law who was nice and cool. Turned out he cheated on my sister and was abusive. The other brother in law, on the first day I met him he gave me a wedgie and called me "Melvin" Apparently where he came from, a wedgie is called a Melvin. I did not like him at first, but later he taught me how to drive a stick, and let me drive his sports car across the United States with him. Shou is a keeper, cool and kind and won't give wedgies.