This serve as reminder for people who want gf/bf just for the sake of having one or just because they want to have sex.
Having relationship means having each other as partner. Understand that it is impossible to have your perfect couple, everyone has flaw, it is up to you to tollerate them, however DO NOT overtollerate. There's small flaws you can live with and there's large flaws you cannot live with, don't get deluded into thinking they gonna change one day, if those flaws started to weigh on your life, cut them off, tollerating that for your entire life when you tied the knot later is not going to be healthy for your newly formed family.