other than the mess (lolita stuff is hella expensive) i guess it's just a 'presentation' kinda thing since ppl don't associate lolitas going to ramen shops or bbq places/izakayas but you'd think the point of dressing up in these kinda stuff is specifically because you don't give AF about how ppl perceive you (but i would def try to change out if it or have some kinda large bib/napkin), so basically "That's not lady like" taking up a notch or whatever??????? She can do both can't she? Who says someone into Lolita fashion can't eat salty greasy foods. Or only has to eat sweets for that matter.