Am I the only one who feels like this sex scene is unnecessary? Please tell me I’m not the only one, lmfaooooo 😭
I believe sex scenes are best composed when they are drawn or written with the intention to move along the plot; intercourse is the kind of thing that necessitates intimacy, regardless of how well you know, or like, someone. It’s why romances so often utilize sex as a way to show progression in a relationship, or the narrowing of a gap between two characters — either / or depending on context.
It’s been 33 chapters. Absolutely nothing substantial has happened, and neither has any of the sex scenes these recent chapters served a purpose that goes beyond superficial characterization.
Doyeon is kind and gentle to her peers. Reliable. She has always taken on unnecessary responsibilities for the comfort of others, and doesn’t seek reward or compensation for her hard work. Characters that are defined by their readiness to care for others but not themselves, much like in real life, often don’t have much agency of their own…except, Doyeon, despite Morae’s expository monologue just one chapter ago, does. She fingerblasts Jinju in the bathroom entirely on her own volition. She chooses to fuck Jinju instead of run after Morae and Gunwoo — one being a girl she grew up alongside, and another a boy that she sees as her little brother. She wasn’t pushed into a corner when she went into Jinju’s house and through her belongings, either.
It’s not that Doyeon can’t control herself. It’s that she can’t control Jinju.
I feel like the two aforementioned sex scenes are really the only ones necessary in cementing that Doyeon is possessive. That her desire to monopolize and confine Jinju stems from a place of love, in spite of her awareness that there’s a quality of unhealthy obsession behind it.
We already saw in chapter 23 that Doyeon tends to use sex as a means to control Jinju. This was emphasized again only 2 chapters later on chapter 25. I don’t understand why we need another sex scene to show how jealous and desperate Doyeon is…when we literally just had a bomb dropped on us (see: Jinju admitting that she can’t love Doyeon)
It feels wrong, almost? Like, damn! You guys only just fucked 2 chapters ago in the bathtub! I would’ve preferred seeing Doyeon distancing herself again. Her internal turmoil is not well shown through the sex scene here, imma be real honest with y’all. It’s literally nothing we haven’t seen before; Doyeon’s gap moe and the shades of dubcon really aren’t anything new. It’s just another sex scene. One that feels shoehorned in, it does nothing for the story.
There’s this manhwa that I really love called Love For Sale, and the English version updates on Wednesdays on Lezhin with this one as well. In the beginning, there were a lot of sex scenes that went back and forth, but one thing that I really liked was that the ML very clearly viewed the sex as an obligation and didn’t really participate out of any sexual desire. But after 40 chapters of abstinence, and him falling in love along the way, his behavior when he and the MC have sex…changes. He blushes, gets embarrassed, is more susceptible to cutting foreplay early and giving in to impatience; not only does how long it took for them to have sex again play a part in showing how far they came as a couple, but it also moves along the plot because we’re getting character development through the sex scene.
Nothing changed with Doyeon in any of the sex scenes, let alone this one. She remains dominant, loose-lipped, strangely vulgar. Considerate as long as a switch hasn’t been flipped.
Jinju is no different, either! 😭 Still just as sensitive and resigned to giving up her body. I wish that instead of focusing on the sex, or dedicating half of the chapters to it, we get more info on Doyeon and Jinju as individuals that exist outside of each other. I think that’s why I prefer the earlier chapters, because the little glimpses we got into their lives before they met was genuinely very compelling. Doyeon presumably got ostracized as a child in the orphanage, I’m still waiting on more elaboration on that. How did that event impact her perspective on loneliness? What the hell happened?
I have the tendency to ramble but I hope that I managed to get my point across. I like Love Thy Neighbor. I believe it has a lot of potential, and I can tell that the author is very talented at both character design and the composition of interesting backgrounds. Jazkin’s hard work and speedy updates is the cherry on top for me tbh, it always makes me happy to see a scanlator so dedicated to their craft. I just wish that Doyeon would stop making pussy appointments and instead hook one up with a therapist 💔