I think what I hate about Kai is, for all intents and purposes, Yukino's right about him. He's talking out of 2 sides of his mouth: he's saying he judges people by their actions, but he's someone who fell in love with Yukino, whose been nothing but heinous. Would he go out of his way to get to know and understand her if she looked how Tae used to, or if she was a man? NO!