I'm going to come at the whole marriage topic from a different point of view, I knew when I was young that I was never going to get married. I was aware that other people would expect me to, but what I knew that they didn't was that I was not cis het. Consequently being a either a husband or a wife was not a good fit, then there was that whole aromantic thing as well
A friend said to me when I was younger that if I wasn't careful I would 'end up left on the shelf'. This I actually found amusing as in my mind I wasn't even in the shop...
On topic I hope sensei finds a
good man to marry and doesn't settle for just anyone.