Hm. Yeah, I kinda get it, or some parts of it. I can relate to this. Sometimes, it's only when you can experience these sort of things, that's when you grasp it in a way that... songs and movies and other media, can't always do. Like, experiences are subjective. One can be influenced to think in a similar fashion to someone else, but when push comes to shove, one realizes "Hey, I can't think of it in the same way as this other person did."
Well, something like that.