Huh, I guess if it's something vanilla it's a cool move to announce your fetish during first-day introductions. But you get negative returns if the fetish gets too weird.
I love men with glasses! -> HAHA, fun! Let's be friends!
I like it when they look up my skirt on the stairs! -> Whoa, laying it all out there is uncomfortable!
I collect his beard trimmings and fingernail clippings and am felting them into a bear! -> Stay away, freak!